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Xecon

Written By: Xecon
March 22, 2010

 

“Longing, Belonging & Identity”

19-year-old Kabir is now counting the days to be rescued from a rehabilitation center in Dhaka, Bangladesh. The person fighting the legal battle is no one from his family, but a lawyer who took up the case seeing the inhumane ‘conversion’ process Kabir has been going through. In fact, it was his family that threw him into the dark, shabby room of the rehab in order to ‘cure’ him from his severe ‘disease’: homosexuality.

Kabir didn’t know that what he was feeling when he was going through his adolescence was actually a sin in the Holy book, a crime before the law, and a disgusting practice for the society. So when he expressed his love for a fellow classmate he was rebuked, scolded, and shunned. Finding no other solace, he sought refuge to the Hijra (transgender) community, which at least didn’t hate him for who he was. But his parents thought this to be too shameful for their well maintained social image and one day dragged him to a rehab. Since then he has spent more than a year in that jail undergoing the ‘conversion therapies’, which made him a criminal, a sinner and a psycho patient even more day by day. Kabir still can’t fathom what wrong he actually did! Was it just because of his mere love for another human being who turns out to be having a penis too? Kabir felt lost and lonely.

The above story is not just the story of one Kabir. There are thousand such Kabirs in every country who are struggling to come into terms with their sexuality and looking for a sense of belonging. In Bangladesh, such a struggle is ever harder since the orthodox Muslim society leaves no space for the queer minds to breathe. Let alone homosexuality, it is even a taboo to talk about sex and sexuality in the public domain. Hence, it is no surprise that a majority of the budding youth society of Bangladesh feels extremely isolated and frustrated.

Keeping that in mind, Boys of Bangladesh (BoB) started its journey seven years back to provide a safe space for like-minded-youths to come together, learn, and share from each other, and ultimately find a place where they can truly belong. BoB organizes regular social events which affirms positive notion of sexuality and celebrates the wide diversity within. As a result, what started as a mere online group of a few young men is now the largest network of self identified gay men, with more than 2000 members.

BoB puts a lot of emphasis on providing a safe space, initiating a dialogue around sexuality and community building. Thus, if I win the Young Visionaries contest, my project will be to make a short documentary on the issues faced by the LGBT youth in the country. The documentary will address their struggles, as well as how they have overcome them. It will be aimed at reaching out to the maximum number of youth regardless of gender, sexuality, age, social class, religion and ethnicity, etc. We envision that the documentary will also prove to be an effective tool to advocate for LGBT youth and make their voices heard.

The project will involve young minds from the community in every step and thus will also give them the opportunity to showcase their talent adding to their confidence and potentiality. Thus the documentary will be by the youth, for the youth, and with the youth.

32 Responses to "Xecon"
  1. Rajeeb says:

    Great to see our nomination! Cool……now keeping the fingers crossed! :) Keep up the great work IWHC!

    • Xecon says:

      Thanks Rajeeb
      Thanks for your all support and kind help for this proposal. without you it wasn't possible for me to do everything alone my self. so, this proposal is from both of us.

  2. Xecon says:

    Dear Friends ..pls vote for me ..vote for BoB

  3. Xecon says:

    Dear Friends thanks for voting me.

  4. inna says:

    keep up the good work xecon. love u !

  5. Rizwana Yasmin says:

    Great work good luck

  6. ratul says:

    Gr8 job guyz……..keep it up.

  7. Paritosh says:

    Great Job! and wish you a very good luck…..

  8. Tisa says:

    WOW! This is amazing! Good luck and good job! xoxo

  9. satadru says:

    Best wish form India and my heart ..

  10. Mishu Rahman says:

    good wishes for you Xecon.

  11. Steven A. George says:

    Very good, Xecon. I am proud of you.

  12. Jewel says:

    Gud luck

  13. Syed says:

    Wishing you all the best. and giving you all the support. Hats off to you guy!!!

  14. Purnima says:

    good, best of luck!!

  15. hasan ashraf says:

    Wish you all the best …..

  16. Mishel says:

    all d best'

  17. Sajeeb says:

    All the best wishes for you….

  18. Zinat Ara says:

    Well done!! I worked on women's reproductive helath right for ActionAid-Bangladesh. I am so impressed of your initiatives. Keep it up

  19. Shadhin says:

    wish u all the best.

  20. Lok Prakash says:

    lovely! I wish you have a good time, dear. Hope to learn a lot form this experience! :-)

  21. zamil says:

    great work ! i am happy to see that in Bangladesh some people are thinking about us ! my best wish always with u ! Indeed its a great work!

  22. shaon says:

    wish you all the best.

  23. pete healy says:

    Go Xecon!

  24. tonydais says:

    I seem to be able to sign in… how do i vote?

  25. Nusrat says:

    fantastic work :) wish you all the best :)

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