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Sunita Basnet

Written By: Sunita Basnet
March 19, 2010

 

In urban areas, women are educated enough and are aware of their rights; but as my own experience from rural village of Mrigauliya, Nepal reveals, we women do not have rights in our own body. Before marriage, we exist to support our parents and after marriage our body is  for our husbands and family members. Primarily the male family members decide what they want to do to our bodies. Many girls are forced to marry between the ages of 15-18. Most women, especially in rural parts of Nepal, are ignored politically, culturally, socially, and economically.

When I was 10 years old, my maternal aunt died after giving birth to a child. It is said that she was having the pregnancy problem for a week and was kept separately outside of house (in a temporary house made of bamboo especially for pregnancy), where children and men weren’t allowed to see her. All my relatives and neighbors believed that it was normal to have pregnancy symptoms for a week; but unfortunately, my aunt died two days after giving birth to a daughter. She died because of blood loss.

Because of superstitious beliefs, people thought that my newborn cousin took my aunt’s life. Thereafter no one cared for her. I still remember the moment when I was not allowed to touch my cousin when she was crying with her hungry stomach. Finally, my cousin passed away after two days. Since that day, I realized that I have to do something in my community so that none of the innocent people like my cousin and my aunt would have to be the victim of such mispractices and superstitious beliefs deeply rooted in the societies. I realized that activities that create awareness will be instrumental to addressing this problem, at least to some extent if not fully. Over many years, I have regularly been engaged in various activities and am still highly motivated to work on these fronts.

If I am selected as a winner of the Young Visionaries Contest grant, I will organize an awareness program which includes drama and free heath check ups for both men and women in my community as well as in some other rural parts of Nepal. I choose to organize a play by mobilizing young people rather than teaching health education to men and women because about 80% of the total populations of my community are illiterate. Even the 20% of the population which is literate does not care much about of women’s health.

Furthermore, I want to start from grassroots level by educating both men and women through the means of play. The social issues such as early marriage, birth spacing, class & caste system, maternal health problem, use of contraceptives, safe abortion, gender discrimination, and issues related with single women will be themetized in the play.

The reason why I have chosen as the location the Village Development Committee office area is that it will be an accessible for most targeted people so that it can have greater influence on a greater mass of people. I believe that, to make women aware of their rights, we also need to include men especially in a patriarchal community like mine so that they will also be aware and support their daughters and wives’ activities – therefore the participation of male members is equally important.

The program will be carried out in partnership with the Women’s Saving Group, a club in which I have been working as the founder. The project will also be supported by Mrigauliya Village Development Committee.

55 Responses to "Sunita Basnet"
  1. M y VOTE is for Sunita Basnet

    Dr Bala Krishna Murthy Ramaraju , MS FRCS

  2. Afroza Alam says:

    My vote for sunita Basnet.

  3. jaybardhan says:

    my vote to sunita basnet,,,

  4. My vote for Sunita Basnet.

  5. AUW says:

    Go Girl Go! We are proud for you

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  8. Bimal Shah says:

    My Vote to Sunita Basnet

  9. Shirin Akter says:

    My vote to Sunita Basnet
    All the best

  10. Trishna Jaishi says:

    i voted for u all the very best wishes

  11. warda chowdhury says:

    My vote for sunita

  12. Tonima Ahmed says:

    My vote is for Sunita. Go on Sunita di…….

  13. ankhi banik says:

    My vote goes to Sunita Basnet. All the best dear..

  14. Saroj Agrawal says:

    My vote for Sunita

  15. Umme Mahbuba says:

    My Vote is for Suni……. well done.

  16. Aditi Thakker says:

    Goog Luck Sunita…I believe in you!

  17. Pankaj says:

    Good Luck Sunita ……….My Vote to Sunita

  18. Fahmida Yesmine says:

    My vote to Sunita! Good luck with your mission………….

  19. Bijayata says:

    Hi Sunita di, Wish you All The Best for your mission……………..

  20. Serenejj says:

    Good luck..love your visions

  21. dilara says:

    Voted, good luck

  22. Rashmi says:

    Loved your vision Sunita! I am touched. We don't need to register to vote you! Voted!! Best of luck.

    Rashmi

  23. Ayobami says:

    Hi Sunita, many development drives are focused on urban areas while villages are often neglected. I think its a great idea for you to focus on that aspect. Good luck! Hope you win.

  24. Andrea Toledo says:

    We FULLY SUPPORT awesome Sunita!

    Spread the Love! ^_^

  25. Saroj Agrawal says:

    gg

  26. Christine Yusuf says:

    Sunita..Go Girl!

  27. eumna basree says:

    vote goes to sunita

  28. Aberamy says:

    We r proud abt u…..GOD BLESS YOU

  29. Sanjog says:

    Dear Sunita!!
    Reading on ur words i found that you have truely understood the situations of women in Nepal. The case you have mentioned about ur maternal aunt is a very good example which shows that people of Nepal, for sure, need a lot to be told and made understood. Nepal is a country where, believing on some superstitious views set years ago, people and community tends to abuse the natural on going process about woman in general. Isolating woman in the time of child birth, in the time of regular menstruation cycle is definitely a very wrong practice. I have seen many cases with my eyes and the end effect of such isolations. Not only in rural areas but these things takes place in family of learned people too!!

    Respecting ur vision, my vote falls for u and wish you loads n loads of luck in turning ur visions to a reality. Hope u succeed in having people develop a new level of understanding. Good luck once again.

  30. Dipak Rijal says:

    keet it up dear, best of luck sunita

  31. Malaya Pinas says:

    Good Luck!

    Malaya

  32. Neeraj says:

    Done Sunita!!!

  33. Ashwini Kumar Sharma says:

    Vote 4 Sunita Basnet…

  34. Gifty says:

    Hi Sunita,
    Good luck!

  35. Usha Chapagai says:

    best of luck.

  36. Damodar says:

    voted….best of luck…..

  37. Thanks all of you for supporting my project.

  38. Luz Marina Jaramillo says:

    My vote is for Sunita Basnet!

  39. best of luck………………………

  40. Nivedita says:

    Dear Sunit,

    Iam very interested to go through the paper written by you on Women’s Land Ownership and Empowerment: A Case Study of Mrigauliya Village Development Committee Nepal.If you can please share with me.Hope you will do the needful action

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